My mother doesn’t know how to be a mother
You are a lucky person if your parents let you do what you want to do and become without them controlling your life or decisions in life. My dad does. But my mother does not. I actually hate my mother. I have tried to understood her all my life because she is my mother and wishing her to change. But NO, she doesn’t. She lives her life pretending, making up stories, and worst, making her children like her. She’s a self-controlling bitch. She may like you with all your good qualities and good results, but one mistake will let you forget about everything good in you. All she will think is the mistake you made, how stupid you are, and you being useless in the family. She also changes narratives of a story or situation. It’s because she doesn’t want to be wronged and instead of accepting the mistake that she made and realizing that her children can be correct sometimes, she do fucking do that. She will gaslight you and let you think that you are now the wronged one in the situation. Stu